dating coach for incredible men
ready for something real.

Looking for a dating coach in Singapore? portmanteau helps single men improve their dating profiles, conversations, confidence and relationship skills through practical coaching, profile reviews and structured frameworks designed for real-world dating.

with portmanteau, you’ll get the tools, strategy, and confidence to date smarter - not harder - so every step forward feels intentional.

here’s how we can work together:

Why isn't she swiping right? Why am I not getting matches on CMB? Why is no one liking me on Hinge? Get an unbiased, informed opinion from a woman - a second look at your profile to get more, quality matches.

1: audit

Best for: Fast feedback, immediate improvements

A dating profile review - a written assessment from a woman who actually knows what women look for. Identifies what's bottlenecking your matches and exactly what to change.

Includes:

1 personalised written report for up to 3 dating apps

choose this if:
you want clarity before investing more time or money

Best Singapore Dating Coach for Men - coaching for singles events or first dates

2: sprint

Best for: Focused coaching, sprint-like progress

Three structured, focused sessions to prepare you for your next big date or event. If you want to know how to ask questions beyond “what do you do for work?” to stand out.

Includes:

30 min Discovery call
1 personal shopping session
1 coaching conversation (online)
1 hands-on practice (online)

choose this if:
you want a targeted intervention for an important event

Best dating coach Singapore for men. First date tips, what to text after a first date - how to find a girlfriend that's actually right for you.

3: dive (flagship)

A bespoke coaching programme designed around your goals, challenges and dating patterns. Move from fear to confidence, unpack and undo limiting beliefs, and gain the self-confidence to change your life.

Includes:

45 min Get To Know You call
Tailored proposal
Min. 3 coaching conversations or practice sessions (online or in person)
Live 1:1 WhatsApp support

Add-ons:

Personal shopping

choose this if:
you want deep, lasting change in your heart and mind, for dating and beyond

hi! i’m wan ting:
dating coach for amazing men who want to date better.

Dating Coach for Singaporean men who want a serious relationship. Learn how to build a stronger dating profile, have better conversations, go on better dates, and stop leaving dating to chance.

I've spent my career helping people understand themselves, develop their strengths, and make important career decisions.

Today, I bring that same thinking to dating by removing the painful trial and error.

With thoughtful coaching and practical, framework-based guidance that's tailored to you, you can stop wasting valuable time and money on the wrong one, and start getting more matches and better dates.

Because finding the right partner deserves more than luck.

client reviews

  • Wan Ting helped me unpack what was really behind my resistance and blockages...and helped me find my way through to small but meaningful steps I could take.

    -M

  • She was incredibly professional and knowledgeable, and her advice was very targeted to the issues I was facing.

    -XJ

  • I needed help with layering clothes and varying my style a little to suit my body. Wan Ting very patiently guided me through how to colour coordinate pieces within my colour palette, and gave really practical advice on how to shop for and plan my outfits....which really boosted my confidence. It was a truly personalised experience, and Wan Ting approached everything with patience and professionalism. 100% worth it!!

    -N

  • She created a space that felt genuinely safe, practising patience and non-judgement, and remaining present while staying closely attuned to my reactions throughout.

    -R

  • I recommend for anyone who needs a kickstart in figuring it all out.

    -A

why dating feels so hard in singapore

Describe the "right one". Can't? Dating coach for men who actually want to find out.

Dating can feel overwhelming, especially if it’s your first time. Everyone seems to have a different opinion, and social media is full of advice about “what women really want”, “how long to wait before texting to make her really want you”, or “what you really need to do to get any woman to fall for you”.

I’m not going to do that (even though, as a woman, I probably could). Neither am I here to take the romance out of dating, or to hand you a list of rigid rules.

Fundamentally, you’re already trying to find the right person. Your heart is already in the right place. It just gets a little much sometimes, when you don’t know what you’re “supposed” to do, or when you think you’re “already doing everything right” but you’re just not sure why she just sees you “as a friend”.

I’m here to cut the guesswork out.

dating isn’t a game.
let’s stop guessing.